I think women are most sexy when they’re comfortable. She could be wearing a suit strolling through downtown San Francisco. She could be barefooted cooking in her kitchen. She could be walking in her yoga pants, sweaty at the gym. She needn’t be half naked in her bed. To me, sexy is confidence and comfortability and casual knowledge. She knows she’s sexy and doesn’t have to try. And that’s the sexiest of all.
When I get a woman into the bedroom for a portrait session, I’m keenly aware of her comfort level. It can be hard taking off your clothing, especially in broad day light in front of a camera. Most often we start slow. Whatever she wants. Whatever she’s comfortable with. And we progress from there.
And as we progress, always, her confidence grows. She gets more and more comfortable and she casually becomes aware of just how beautiful she is. She doesn’t try. She just is. And that is just so damn sexy.
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